Perhaps it's the retired status, or perhaps it's just my awareness that I can only do what I can do. Then again, perhaps it's because this year I'm not so concerned about other people's expectations and more focused on my piece of mine (<-- that was for my friend Mitch. He likes to catch my mistakes. Make that "peace of mind.")
But, we're smack dab in the middle of THE season of peace, tranquility, love, appreciation, gratitude and good will for all mankind. Somehow, "stress" just seems so out of place. Perhaps I am just fortunate not to be living a stressful life right now, or perhaps... I've just chosen to be stress free. Don't get me wrong... I KNOW there are people in the world who are deluged in stressful, painful situations right now and they can't be totally stress-free life at present, but for most of us... most of the people I know... the stress is optional... but for the "things" we're focusing on, and the meaning we are voluntarily assigning to those things. LOTS of people are giving gifts this season that are attached to so much stress they can hardly see. But, I'd like to suggest that... no matter what you BUY this Christmas... that the gifts you GIVE are love.. warmth... appreciation... gratitude... and acceptance. Those will go further than the material thing(s) you attach to them, and I guarantee you'll feel better about you.
Incidentally, you also need to give yourself the gifts of love, gratitude and acceptance; because despite what most marketers and some of your acquaintances might tell you... you're okay. Even precious diamonds have imperfections. Then again, it is we who define imperfect... And if you're having some challenges with that... perhaps you might enroll in my Daily Dose of Vitamin K. We cover those points often. It was planned to be on sale now, but it's not yet... so take advantage of it for now and we'll just call it my Christmas gift to you (and anyone you pass that link onto between now and when I finally get the sale page online.) You can check out a few comments here. And who knows, maybe by the time you get there...there will be a few more.
So that's it, my friends. I wish for you a stress-free holiday season; focused on the things that really matter, as you give the gifts of love, gratitude and acceptance... regardless of what "physical" gifts you attach to them.
Have a beautiful week. And incidentally... there's an excellent video on Mitch's blog that it would be good for everyone to see, this time of year especially. So if you didn't click it, go ahead and click on his name / link and watch it. Take a stress-free 16 minutes and check it out.
Love and Light to you ;-)
Kelvin
4 comments:
I agree: the pre-Christmas season needs to be Zen. Quiet. Calm. Peaceful. Dreamy. Dream away and plant the seeds for your life next year.
Nicely written, and I also have had no stress over this holiday for whatever reason. Thanks for the link as well; happy holidays!
I like that you wrote that you have chosen NOT to be stressed. That's the whole thing, it's all mind over matter. I am fortunate not to be stressed either for the holidays. It is very nice to go into the new year in a relaxed manner. My thoughts go out to all those stressed people though :( .
Thank you all for commenting on this post -- I appreciate you :-) "Iowna"... so many cause themselves the stress they suffer from. We endeavor to suggest new mind sets to help them. Perhaps we will stay friends and you will help us in that endeavor. Please, don't be a stranger. Mitch and Sophie could never be strangers -- they are indelibly etched into my life. It's a good thing. Take care and Merry Christmas, all...
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